First Visit To A Nail Bar

The last time I had a professional manicure was the day before my wedding, in 1994. It has just never been anything that I have made time for. I have never had nice nails and my hands always look awful, especially in the winter, red and swollen. I seem to do some sort of cleaning at home every day and also clean my parents’ house and, despite always wearing rubber gloves, my hands have started to look depressingly dreadful. No amount of Clarins or L’Occitane hand cream seems to make a difference. I recently bought some hand masks from Oliver Bonas and they have really helped so much, my hands look smoother and less irritated. My nails were however broken right down. I do take Oesteocare supplements every day and had hoped that these would help but no, my nails desperately needed some attention.

One reason that I never visit one of the dozen or so nail bars in my town is because the industry has such a reputation for people trafficking. I read many online reviews and booked into a salon manned by the two sisters who own it. They only accept cash which makes me think that they are not entirely honest with the Inland Revenue, this appeared to be the case with every local nail bar.

I arrived for my appointment and the technician was very friendly and went to great trouble to explain the options, pricing and the ongoing commitment for various treatments. I was hoping to leave the salon with a set of perfect almond shaped nails but the tech advised me to shun acrylics and go for something called BIAB. She explained that this a manicure that’s gentler than acrylic nails, but thicker and more protective than regular nail and gel polish. The idea is that the client’s natural nails grow under the protective barrier of the gel. The cost of this treatment at the salon I visited was £48 and this included a colour polish.

The technician applied a layer of gel to each nail and then the finger was placed under a lamp. She explained that some people found this a little painful. I found it excruciating and some of my nail beds were still tender the next day. Apparently this is due to “heat spikes” where the gel cures. I Googled and it did say that this is common when too thick a layer of gel is applied and I have to say that my finished effect is a little blobby. After the gel was dry I chose a lavender coloured polish to go on top. The whole procedure lasted for just over an hour. The sisters were super friendly, chatting about their children and holidays and I felt very at ease but I can’t say I am delighted with the result. I left a £10 tip, just over twenty percent, which took the bill to almost sixty pounds. I suppose the techs can’t work miracles but I feel a couple of coats of my Essie gel polish would have had pretty much the same result. I will go and have them “infilled” in three weeks time to see if I am happier with my nails after they have had a chance to grow a little. I am not really sure that I feel sufficiently enthusiastic to make this an ongoing appointment/expense.

I do have some Manicurist polishes, another Oliver Bonas purchase and I see that they sell their own gel lamp and a friend of mine, who has naturally lovely nails, gets her daughter to do hers at home using a kit by Mylee Neither of these options will provide the three week finish that a BIAB manicure offers but both would certainly be less expensive, the cost of buying the kit would be less than two visits to the salon. I may go down this route instead of spending what will amount to about nine hundred pounds a year on blobby nails. Perhaps this just wasn’t the right salon for my first visit.

Thank you for reading

Samantha

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Makeup Bag and Cosmetics Refresh

For my recent birthday a friend gave me a pretty new make up bag from one of my favourite shops, Oliver Bonas. It has taken pride of place on my dressing table and replaced the Clarins freebie that I have been using for years. It also provided a good opportunity for me to go through my cosmetics and throw away some of the embarrassingly ancient, and probably horribly unhygienic, items. I have used the same Nars blusher everyday for about six years and it pained me to throw it away but even the case was falling apart. My optician told me that, in an ideal world, mascara should be replaced every six weeks because of the bacteria that accumulate with each use, definitely time to bin my antique Estee Lauder. I also got rid of my Clinique eyeliners, most of which had lost their caps, and replaced them with one from Lancome in a shade called Bronze. The Lancome is very creamy, easy to blend and the shade is flattering.

I also received a Clarins bronzer as a gift in the lightest shade they sell. I have never used bronzer before. I am very pale and have always thought it would just look too orange on me. I’m also not really sure how to apply it, I had to watch a YouTube video by Ali Andreea, a stunningly beautiful make up artist, to find out. Her tutorials make everything look easy and it is tempting to buy all of the high-end products she uses. The Clarins bronzer is comprised of two shades and the darker colour is definitely too deep for me so half of the product will go to waste. The lighter shade is pretty though when sparingly applied and I like the matte finish. I did buy another Nars blusher though so I am good for six more years!

I have also been trying out This Works Perfect Cleavage & Neck Serum I am not a fan of the fragrance but the product is lovely to use and easily absorbed. My neck feels well moisturised but not sticky after use. Like the rest of the planet, I spend too much time looking at a screen and am keen to avoid the dreaded “tech neck” and hopefully this may help. I have a This Works Stress Check Mood Manager spray in my home office for days when my work email inbox is filling up faster than I can empty it, it’s actually surprisingly effective and the fragrance is beautiful. I will be trying more products from this brand.

So, some successful and much appreciated gifts. Pretty things may not be important but they do make life that little bit nicer.

Thank you for reading

Samantha

Purse Predicament

In my recent post Shopping Shy I described how much my daughter hates shopping and that I think it’s the sense of overwhelm that is the problem. There is simply too much stuff to choose from. Gone are the days of going into a shop and having two or three choices. Now we all have fingertip access to thousands of retailers offering their, often very similar, wares.

In Ruby Wax’s book Frazzled she describes how the act of buying some cushions became a huge exercise in overthinking. I remember some years ago going onto Amazon to order some new salt and pepper grinders. There were hundreds and hundreds to choose from. Goodness knows how much time I wasted comparing them all, I actually began to feel quite stressed over this inconsequential decision. I eventually bought two perfectly ordinary wooden grinders which I have never given a second thought to since. 

This week I decided to buy a new purse. I wanted something smaller than I usually use with room for a few cards, a couple of coins and a little bit of cash. How hard could that be? Having sold several bags and purses on eBay as part of my ongoing de-cluttering exercise, I was in the position to treat myself to something nice if I wanted. I Googled small zip-around purse and was immediately swamped with choice. There was a beautiful Chanel number for an eye-watering price, I discounted that immediately as I have not won the lottery. Louis Vuitton have a pretty model for £350 but it’s still very expensive and I’m not a huge fan of their Monogram canvas. Mulberry have one for £240 but it is a little plain. Oliver Bonas have some at £26 but they aren’t leather although I was very tempted by the bright orange. I choose a glossy patent leather purse from French brand Isabel Bernard for £60 but a £30 delivery charge was added at checkout so I cancelled. Eventually, after much deliberating, I ordered one from the Kate Spade sale which came in at around £50. It arrived yesterday and is perfect. Phew.

I do wonder how all of these different retailers keep going, surely there can’t be that many people looking to buy the same product? I haven’t even mentioned all the hand made options available on Etsy. I buy most of my birthday cards from Etsy but I haven’t had a great experience with other items, the quality has been lacking or they just haven’t tuned up.

If you’d like to pick out your own small purse without the over-thinking drama, then take a look at my Pinterest board below, I have done the leg-work for you.

https://pin.it/rbgjK9HJ7

Thank you for reading,

Samantha

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